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009 Who do you trust to speak for you?
Welcome! Or welcome back. This weekly newsletter is intended to give you stories and tools to help you be more comfortable as you help others in hard…
Jon Swanson
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008 Now. That's a relief.
Welcome or welcome back! Time changes are disruptive. In the US, this week has been a week of recovering from time change. We need relief. In my…
Jon Swanson
Mar 17
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007 - Grief support using social media? Maybe.
And better structured emails, more on the friends survey, and online grief packets.
Jon Swanson
Mar 10
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006 Being helpful in loss because you are a helper.
Welcome. Or welcome back. +++ “To be more persuasive, change verbs to nouns.” It’s not often that I think about grammar. But Daniel Pink and Jonah…
Jon Swanson
Mar 3
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006 Being helpful in loss because you are a helper.
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February 2023
005 - On food for the grieving, 10 helpful books, and more.
Welcome or welcome back! (I hope you got to watch my video this week. It made me feel a little more connected.) I’m bringing a potluck of resources…
Jon Swanson
Feb 24
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004 - A short video to let you hear my voice.
Watch now (4 min) | That sounds funny, right? That I want you to hear my voice? But tone of voice and ways of talking are so much part of how we provide…
Jon Swanson
Feb 22
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003 Helpful in loss – Orienting and a project about losing friends.
Welcome! (Or welcome back) You and I are here because we want to help people in times of loss. Sometimes those people are in our mirror. Sometimes they…
Jon Swanson
Feb 17
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002 Helpful in loss: We want to be told “this is hard”
Welcome back! From what I know about the subscribers to this newsletter, you are the kind of person who asks, “What’s one way I can be helpful when…
Jon Swanson
Feb 10
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002 Helpful in loss: We want to be told “this is hard”
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A recent model of bereavement coping - DPM
As I started researching being helpful in loss in mid-2022, learned about a new-to-me model of bereavement coping called the DPM, Dual Process Model. It…
Jon Swanson
Feb 8
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001 Helpful in loss: Making space for a story
If you are part of this readership, you are the kind of person who asks, “What’s one way I can be helpful when someone’s lost a loved one?” It’s often…
Jon Swanson
Feb 3
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January 2023
Sunday night review (and the start of this newsletter
Some people write about using Sunday afternoon or evening as an opportunity to plan for the week. You review the calendar, you check your to-do lists…
Jon Swanson
Jan 30
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the most helpful act is often simply being present and being responsive.
“Where are you?” he asked. “In the kitchen,” she said. “What are you doing?” “Working.” “Are you cold?” “No.” It's a pretty ordinary conversation…
Jon Swanson
Jan 26
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